Thursday, April 23, 2009

Friends


Once had a friend who grew to be very close to me. Once when we were sitting at the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the palm of her hand with some water and held it before me, and said this: "You see this water carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love."

This was how I saw it: As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt to close your fingers round it and try to posses it, it will spill through the first cracks it finds.

This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love...they try to posses it, they demand, they expect... and just like the water spilling out of your hand, love will retrieve from you .

For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature. If there are people you love, allow them to be free beings.

Give and don't expect.
Advise, but don't order.
Ask, but never demand.

It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly practice. It is the secret to true love. To truly practice it, you must sincerely feel no expectations from those who you love, and yet an unconditional caring."

Passing thought... Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take; but by the moments that take our breath away.....

Life is beautiful! Live it!

"I Will Remember that person Not As The One Who Broke My Heart, But As the One Who Taught Me, How To Live With A Broken Heart and how to love !

11 Comments:

Ad Rifza said...

Give and don't expect.
Advise, but don't order.
Ask, but never demand.


So sweet...Just give advise and ask..but tidak mengharap apa2...

bozzobattousai said...

ad rifza,
mungkin itu yg terbaik...

DrSam said...

Life will become so lifeless without your friends to cheer you up and make your day.

bozzobattousai said...

DrSam,
beautifully said...

@xiM said...

saya tak boleh bayangkan hidup say a tanpa kawan kawan..huhu

bozzobattousai said...

axim,
klu xde kengkawan baik jadi kera dlm hutan...

Shitsurei shimashita said...

bozzo masih main rugby lagi ker? main tuk UM dulu ker? patutlah mcm pernah nampak.

en_me said...

kawan menangis sukar dicarikks kannns abang bozoo teww..

ayang ati said...

tanpa kengkawan baik jadi kera dalam hutan.
tapi, tanpa family hidup terus macam takde maknanye lagi.
so, macam mana sekalipun kite menghargai kengkawan, jangan sesekali family tak terus dilupakan.....
walau kite dah anggap kengkawan tu macam family, tapi, the real family tetap harus diutamakan.....
betul tak?

bozzobattousai said...

shimashita,
bozzo dah pencen dari main rugbi...dah gain weight dan tak larat nak lari dah...

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en me,
klu bleh jumpa kawan menangis jgn biar dia nangis sorang2...tapi jgn buat dia nangis plak...

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ayang,
betul tuh sayang...tapi cam dlm je maksudnya...nak tuju kat sesape ke?

ayang ati said...

sapa yang makan cili, dia la yang rasa pedasa.....p
tak tuju kat sape-sape. kalau ada yang terasa, harap maaf la ye.....